St Andrew’s Chapel in Southwark is one of only two Anglican chapels in the world dedicated to people who have died of AIDS-related illnesses. Prayers have been said in remembrance every Saturday since 1991 in their memory – a vigil lasting 30 years for those we have lost.

Lord Michael Cashman (patron of Terrence Higgins Trust and one of the founders of Stonewall), spoke at the event and described his memories of the chapel: 'As I stand here, I remember when there were no places of refuge, no sanctuary, but this was a refuge, a sanctuary where we could feel safe, protected and above all wanted. I will never forget that.'

During the service, a list of names was read out – those who the congregation personally wished to remember – lovers, friends, siblings, parents, and children. The list finished with a call to remember our advocates and activists, those who took part in medical trials, those who died before effective treatment, those still unable to access medication, all those not known to us and the many who still cannot be publicly named due to continuing stigma.

Those in attendance took their lit candles up to the altar and quietly placed them there. Many took a few silent moments at the altar to reflect while they laid their candle.

The Joyful Noise choir – a group of singers living with HIV – performed at the service. Their barnstorming rendition of Lean On Me closed the service, and had members of the audience up on their feet dancing and singing along: a joy filled embrace of life and community, despite the sorrow.

Readings were provided by Glenda Bonde, Equity, Diversity and Inclusion Director at Terrence Higgins Trust. Reverend Jide Macaulay, founder of House of Rainbow, a safe space for the spiritual growth and inclusion for black LGBTQ+ people addressed the service.

Jide Macaulay spoke of years of 'abuse by the church', saying: 'I was called an abomination because I am gay. I was told that HIV is the punishment for homosexual behaviour and practices. I was subjected to years of conversion therapy and prayers of deliverance. I was called contaminated soil.'

He called for religious leaders to speak openly about sexual health as leaders within their communities.